时间能冲淡一切吗？

有人问我能否把发生过的事情当作没发生过
我当时想了很久却想不到怎样答
最后也没有回答....

如果是说我自己,我觉得时间能冲淡一切
虽然今天会很在意, 可是过了几天就不会了
人往往都是向前看的。
时间久了认识新人或没联络了
就足已把对方忘了

当然, 也需要看各人

有些人能把事情分的很清楚。
可以不把发生过的事当成一回事
有些人却会把每一件事看得很重
发生过的事无法忘记...

有些人把发生的事当回忆,偶然想起
有些人把发生的事幻想成未来,纠缠不清
有些人把发生的事当做威胁,毁损名誉
有些人把发生的事当成噩梦,畏惧

有些人把发生的事当成理所当然,过分要求
有些人却把发生过的事当成永不提起的秘密

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