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Goal for the year: To bring my partner out for a date monthly. As I mentioned on Goal Review 5/6, I did not go out on a date with my partner on July hence failing the goal. What I did however is to bring my partner out on 2 dates on August. Had a dinner date as usual. At Bugis plus after work! We had curry rice at CoCo Ichibanya I think the food there is not bad! My partner didn't really like the place as the table is a little bit too small.  After dinner, we went to shop at uniqlo! Bought a few shirt for my partner <3 (Oh but the shirts are still inside the plastic bag beside the wardrobe.) Next, we went to Tampines iSteaks for dinner on Saturday. We reached the place at around 5.45 to have early dinner. Thankfully, the dinner crowd have not arrived yet otherwise we would have been stuck outside queuing. Food is awesome as usual. We had ordered a Mushroom soup,  1 450g NZ Striploin (Medium rare) and a chicken steak. Parmesan Asp...

Back in June I mentioned that I will be writing the below topics 1. What to bring / do on a trip 2. What to prepare for BBQ / camping 3. What to expect after coming back from a week long leave (when you work in a small company) 4. Thoughts and reflection about work. 5. Plans for the future 6. Goal review 7. Royal Chaos It's September now and I only did 1 which is the goal review. Procrastination at its best. V.V I think I should just continue to post daily and touch on those topics as and when I remember. Procrastination is the number 1 thing that kills. I want to be able to complete many things in a day but I am always tempted to procrastinate. Nowadays I always try to tell myself that if I finish one item completely, I will have one less thing to do and more time for myself. But I haven't been able to finish most things completely :( Started reusing Trello to set up a to do list because 1. It is time efficient Typing is faster than writing it down. No need ...

I haven't been posting for a long time. Not sure if anyone is still following. Anyway, it's August now and I haven't done my goal review for June and July Goal of the year is to  Bring my partner out for a date monthly. For June, We went for a classic movie date. Although my partner and I have been together for 4 years, but I think we only went to the Cinema for around 5 times as we think that it is a waste of money to go and watch it in the Cinema. Well, the reason why I proposed catching a movie is because I'm lazy to plan for a date and also,  I really wanted to watch Aladdin!  (I didn't watch the old version so I will not be comparing the two. If you need any comparison, you can always search it on YouTube. There are so many of them!) Anyway, to me, the movie was great!  Sound track is awesome.  (Though I think the sound track sounds better on earpiece than in cinemas) My personal song ranking A Whole New World Speech...

This June had been a busy month for me which explains why I haven't been posting for quite sometime. There are so many things I want to write about but I only have a little time. So I shall just jolt down what I was planning to write about 1. What to bring / do on a trip 2. What to prepare for BBQ / camping 3. What to expect after coming back from a week long leave (when you work in a small company) 4. Thoughts and reflection about work. 5. Plans for the future 6. Goal review 7. Royal Chaos Will be starting to work on the articles this week. Hopefully I will have enough strength to write a post by tomorrow.

人都是口是心非 选择权已经在你手上了 但做出的选择与心里的选择是不一致的 Oh why oh why are you so fickle minded~ oh why oh why you are this way ? 因为不管事情的大小都有太多人事物需要考虑 心里想要/做的的事 不敢轻易的说出来 不敢去尝试 不敢轻易答应/ 做出选择 怕被人占便宜 怕别人不认同 怕别人的目光 怕会被收控制 怕尽力...

It has been a very unproductive week cause I am physically very tired although I didn't do much things. Work was hectic! Both my site supervisor are on leave and I am left to liaise with the worker leader which I can't really communicate well with. Some contractors are MIA while some contractors are really nice and help us a lot in order for us to meet the deadlines. Still the dark times are not yet over. There are still a lot more work to be done at this site although we are supposed to be close to completion. One of my site supervisor will be back tomorrow... So I will have less thing on my plate to think about. Now what is left of the project is to ensure that the subcontractor get back to me with the schedules so that I can arrange work and ensure that work can be completed on time. Next week (tomorrow) I will have to focus on another project which has started (but we have yet to do anything) Hopefully I can get most of the paperwork done so that site can proceed w...

Selamat Hari Raya! Felt like nowadays I am only posting on Holidays + a few days after holidays. But I guess it is not really the case. Heheh ! Today is really just a day for me to laze around. Like all the other holidays, I didn't complete what I planned to do today. In fact, I even back out from one of my plans. (Flying my family aeroplane) Stayed on the bed for more than half the day as I was really tired... Also, I feel happy spending time on my own (as no one is at home) Watched shokugenki (food wars) on Netflix Listened and watched a few YouTube videos. Played the violin for awhile. Time flies when it is a public holiday. Soon it is time for dinner. And now, it's almost the next day. Got lots of work to rush tomorrow since I didn't touch them today. I don't think I will have the energy to continue working on them when I reach my partner's place later.

Disclaimer : This post is badly written cause I just wanted to write about phone plans lol. Earlier today, M1 made a big change! it replaced all of its mobile plans with only 2 base plans. 1 SIM only plan and the other is comes with handset. I actually don't want to spend much on phone / phone number hence, I'm only looking at the SIM only plan.  It's $25/Month for 30GB, *1000Mins + 1000 SMS*, Free flow weekend data, Free caller ID, unlimited free calls to 3 M1 numbers and unlimited music streaming on Spotify Looks really worth it! I mean after all most plans out there are offering 200minutes + 200 smses. But wait! It doesn't indicate free incoming and that's probably why they give you 1000mins + 1000 sms So if you need to call / answer the phone a lot, then it is probably not very worth for you to get this plan. However 30GB.. That's really a lot of data! You can switch to using whatsapp for calls if there isn't enough talktime. Thi...

As Vesak day falls on a Sunday, Monday becomes a public holiday! Spent the whole day being at my parents home which is something I haven't done for a long time. A day spent on myself after a long time. Plan for the holiday was 1. Finish up the office work I've leftover from Saturday as I went to site. 2. To go out and have a run / a swim with my sister 3. To go out and buy measuring tape 4. To Practice violin 5. To complete my mobile games 6. To clear the kitchen But I ended up lazing until 10+ Went out for lunch with my mom, niece and nephew. Played the claw machine with my niece (didn't want to spend much on it. Luckily we got a toy on our 3rd try.) She keep saying that she wants to play cause she saw people play and get the plushie. Total money spent on the claw machine : $4 (I put in 2x$2 to change for the token.) Now that I think about it, I should have sell the token to someone else for a dollar ! Buy food back for my sister. Watched videos Played ...

今年的生日跟往年一样 没拿假日 同样去上班 不同的是 一整天在工地度过 不同的是； 公司安排每个人去工地附近的咖啡店一起吃午餐 公司的每个人都来了 吃完午餐后回去工地的办公室  陪同六个同样在五月出生的同事一起庆生 庆生后 又要前往工地 (我从另一个工地过来这个工地庆生) 六点放工 约了伴侣吃晚餐 (是我订位 约TA的 ) 所以那算是我五月主动带我伴侣出门 晚餐内容会PO 在下个 Goal Review 吃完了已经有一点玩了 由于一整天在工地, 已经很疲倦了 所以回家梳洗后就去睡了 伴侣送我的礼物我也没有仔细地去看 (在餐馆已经看过了) 其实我也并不需要礼物啦 我说过不需要 可是TA还是买了 开心但是觉得有点浪费钱 毕竟TA也在存钱买自己想要的东西.

People are often scared to ask questions as they are afraid that the other party will think that their questions are stupid or that they might not get the answer that they want. For me, I feel that it is always better to ask for what you want. You will learn better that way instead of assuming things. By asking, you will unlock possibilities which you have never known. If you assume that the person will never give in your demands if you asked... Then you will never get what you want.

3 goals set as my 2019 New Year resolution set using the SMART method Only one remain as of today The one remain is  1. 每个月要主动带伴侣出门一次 (to bring my partner out for a date monthly) Previously when I started this goal, I did plan to not only have a dinner date but many different activities. But then after the Labrador park date (February date) Our date can only happen indoors as my partner is heat sensitive So, the rest of the dates are just going to be dinner dates xD

After not having public holiday for a long time February (CNY) to April (Good Friday) It is now the holiday season... And yes! It is in the month of May. Why do I say so? Cause we have 2 PH in May! Labour day and Vesak day. One right at the start and the other right next week... Do you know what that means? That means it is time for us to go out and have fun! Nah... Just kidding. I think I will just spend my day lazing at home like what I did for Good Friday and Labour day.... Well, I made an improvement on Labour day. I did not laze the whole day at home like what I did on Good Friday. I only laze half of my day at home. Then,I went to a shopping mall with my partner for dinner. After having dinner, we shopped in the mall. The loot from the trip? - 2 Clutch bag. One from the Partner and One for the Mum - 2 Pillow - 2 Laundry Bag - 1 Cutting Mat - 2 packet of soba noodles. On the way back home, I completed my game so, I started looking onl...

Friday was Good Friday. I spend almost the whole day resting in bed. When it comes to dinner time, My partner and I decided to go for a Japanese buffet. Didn't check the reviews before that. Now that we checked, it's 2.5 stars Service was slow as hell. Food was okay. I think the cut of salmon is too thick. But other than that it is okay. Ate till we were both very full and I couldn't eat anymore. Saturday, I woke up and go to work still feeling full from the night before. and guess what?! There is a family bbq at night and we had excess food ! Ate till I am really full. After the BBQ ended at 10.30pm, We went up the house and proceed with games. It was fun until I lost the game.  I think I was being a sore loser yesterday but I don't really care. Not sure if I will ever want to play that game anymore. Or maybe I just won't ever play with my partner. I thought I will sleep for a long time since we are only back home and asleep at around 4am.  But I woke up...

When Friday is a public holiday, The office is quiet on Thursday as most of the people will take a day off in order to get a long weekend where they can spend and enjoy. It is also one of the most unproductive day as there are many people you couldn't contact.... Energy levels in the office is so low that you don't even feel like working. But there is no choice. Things must still go on so, I try to complete as many things as I could and leave on time. Tomorrow is good Friday. The public holiday I have been waiting for. But there is hardly time to even enjoy as I still have work on Saturday. T.T I think it is time for me to start looking for a 5 day workweek job.

In summary, 3 goals from the start of the year and only 1 Goal is left. Reason behind forfeiting those goals are written in Goals review 2. 1. Plan a short trip / staycation with my partner before May this year 2.  每个月要主动带伴侣出门一次  (To bring my partner out for a date monthly) 3.   Practice the music sheet from Lindsey and be able to play it well by April 2019 Last month I took my partner to the royals steakhouse to have steak :) I had a striploin (medium rare) while partner had ribeye at medium.  Food is nice ! Doneness is spot on! Atmosphere is okay. Kitchen is open concept. You could see the cooks cooking. We walked in but I would recommend you to have your seats reserved if you are going in a big group. I will definitely go back again. This month, I haven't thought of where to go !!!! Friday is PH ! It is the perfect time to go out on a date. I guess I had to do last minute planning again. (I know I am such a horrible partner.)

其实从很早很早的时候 就已经发现我们没有办法满足对方的性趣 曾今的我有想过要不要因此分手 因为那对我来说我挺喜欢的东西 也是我需要的东西 但是当时的我也很喜欢彼此单纯的在一起 想了想, 这是一个可以学习个人喜好, 越做越好, 越做越觉得我们很匹配的事情 所以没有分开 但是三年后我们依然没办法满足彼此.... 不知道到底能做什么才能够做得更好 ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 哎呀今天就写到这里 有太多太多东西向要想要PO  但是因为个人隐私觉得别PO 比较好 反反复复做同样的事; 写了又删 生活中太多事了 终是想太多 ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------- 昨天又开始了新的漫话 "豪门的私宠宝贝" 一直看到4.30AM 才睡 今早起来时, 好想拿病假不上班  继续在家读 但是没办法啦! 工作很多没有办法不要上班 :(

有人问我能否把发生过的事情当作没发生过 我当时想了很久却想不到怎样答 最后也没有回答.... 如果是说我自己,我觉得时间能冲淡一切 虽然今天会很在意, 可是过了几天就不会了 人往往都是向前看的。 时间久了认识新人或没联络了 就足已把对方忘了 当然, 也需要看各人 有些人能把事情...

Haven't been posting for a long time. Been spending hours at work and also watching netflix, reading manga & playing Royal chaos that I don't have more time to write about my life. Also, there nothing much that is interesting hence I didn't post. I mean even if there is anything I find interesting, I write them halfway, leave it in the drafts and now it's outdated! So, the chances of me taking it out from the draft to publish is quite low? Anyway, we have entered a new month and it is time for my Goal Review. 3 goals previously set and I think I am going to forfeit 2 goal or bring the deadline of the goal further back. 1.Plan a short trip / staycation with my partner before May this year I am forfeiting this goal because my partner doesn't want to spend money on a staycation / a short trip this year. 2. 每个月要主动带伴侣出门一次 During the first date of the year, I wrote my partner a letter about the date of our next date together with the location. However ...

1.Plan a short trip / staycation with my partner before May this year 2. 每个月要主动带伴侣出门一次 3. Practice the music sheet from Lindsey and be able to play it well by April 2019 1 Month have passed since I have set my new year goals. So let's review and see if there are any progress made in any of them... Item 1: Short trip / Staycay not planned yet. I'm thinking of forfeiting this goal cause of money and time constraint but I guess there is no giving up since I have already set the goal. Need to start planning soon. Otherwise it will be a goal that I will not accomplish this year... Item 2:  一月二十三日， 我把我的伴侣带出门去一件小餐厅吃晚餐 AKA Dinner Date. Price was reasonable and the taste is good. Told partner about the next date and will be going on our next date soon. In fact I already have in mind where to go for the remaining 11 dates So what's left to do is not be lazy and bring him out. Item 3: Havent really started on it. I think I will be practicing Crystallize sinc...